My favorite type of sessions

I get all kinds of requests for domination but the ones I really really enjoy are ones that start with a meal. Call Me a traditionalist or someone who knows how to enjoy food, but it’s true, I love eating with you.


My traditional Asian upbringing and culture revolved around food. If you cared about someone – you would offer them food, if you enjoyed someone’s company – you would eat with them, if you wanted to show someone you valued them, you paid for their meal. Eating a meal together is  an activity to focus on while being able to enjoy each other’s company. Sometimes it gave us things to talk about like “Wow, this congee is so delicious” or “This ramen is the worst!”. Sometimes it is the perfect activity to do in complete silence.

And of recent, it has been the perfect activity to do when discussing kink. But above all, it allows both of us, especially you, to relax, open up and reveal important information that I can use on you later. Little snippets of information that you barely even register as insight into your own mind. And you want this, because the more I know about you, the deeper your experience will be in play. And I tease you, perhaps get you to do little acts of service for Me like buckling up My garter belt on My stocking while I see your hands shake. I can tease and push you even without anyone else knowing. Most of My play is psychological and you will start to notice yourself become more and more submissive over our meal. After food, when I feel ready, you will pay for dinner to show appreciation for My time and as a cultural act of showing Me that you value My presence and then we will then head to My location.

Back to My location, you find yourself utter helpless, smittened, controlled and filled with a hunger and anticipation that only sitting in My presence for two hours over dinner can build. After all that light teasing over dinner, it’s feeling harder and harder to think straight.

When we start to play, you get lost in the sensations, the control and the need and desire to please Me. After all, you have seen Me in person now, you have gazed upon My beautiful soft face, red lips and enticing body. All of which, seared into your mind now, and you realize you are helpless… Completely Mine.

I then toy with you, pace you and your dark desires and slowly but surely pull you deeper and deeper into a place of submission. I wield all the knowledge that I gleaned from you over two hours, I say things that make you twitch, shake and breath heavy. And you are so deep in that you feel yourself almost falling into a dark hole.

At the end of it, probably three hours of play, you realize you are not the same anymore from when you started. You likely found an aspect of yourself you didn’t even know you had. You saw something, the same thing I saw over dinner, I just brought it right out to the surface. You are exhausted, but deeply fulfilled.

This is why I love this kind of experiences with My subs. We can go so deep into your psyche. We can build a sense of trust that allows you and Me to dive deep into places that you would never get to do in a single hour or 1.5 hr session. There is a difference. And these are My favorite ones. As sub show a commitment to a deeper level of intimacy and trust of themselves and My process. It’s very sexy to Me.

Does it sound like a date? Yes.
Is it a date? Ha! In many ways, this is My perfect date, My perfect experience and your perfect submission.

To book time with Me to do this, include it in your application form to Me. I do Dinner and Domination ( or Lunch & Domination ) for a minimum of 4 hours. Try it and experience the difference.

Love,
Domina Elara